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I am married. I have only ever had sex with my wife. I met her in my early twenty?s.
My w...
I am married. I have only ever had sex with my wife. I met her in my early twenty?s.
My wife obviously had boyfriends/hookups etc before me and for some reason since the beginning of our relationship I?ve always had a really hard time dealing with that fact.
I get really anxious and insecure when I think about it.
I guess for reasons like I feel I may not be as good as them in bed (my wife claims that I am the best she?s had ? but at the same time she knows how insecure I am so, even though sex is good for us, I have a hard time believing it)
Also I get upset because I wish I could have been her only one. I suppose that?s the jealousy part.
These issues may seem pretty pathetic to some readers out there but, really, the anxiety is ruining our marriage.
My girlfriend is a very driven intelligent young lady. She juggles a full time job, school, and she ...
My girlfriend is a very driven intelligent young lady. She juggles a full time job, school, and she is a reservist. Well recently, my job closed downed due to lack of business and i have been unemployed fora couple weeks now. Since then she has become very demanding about what she thinks i should do around the house. Basically she thinks i should clean up around the house a she should just be able to come home and do nothing. All she does when she gets home is lay around for a while than goes to sleep. I could if she made an effort to clean but she does nothing. I do clean everything around the house and as soon as stop she tries get mad at me about it. she wont do anything active after work or school. I have female friend that does the exact samethings but she also has two kids. Am i wrong not always wanting to clean up after her? Am i wrong for thinking she is lazy even she does what she does? Am i wong for thinking she trying to wear the pants in the relationship and thats my role regardless of the situation?
Hi Everyone, I'm now writing a book on Penis Enlargement called 'Happiness thru the Art of Penis...
Hi Everyone, I'm now writing a book on Penis Enlargement called 'Happiness thru the Art of Penis Enlargement: A Novel Guide to Jelqing, the G-Spot, How to Last Longer in Bed, and other Sexual Secrets'. If you would like I'm doing a daily blog about the writing process and you can follow along. It's one of the featured blogs on the main page.
But, I'm wondering if there is anything specific that any of you would want me to include in the book. Is there something that my videos don't cover?
My fiancee and I have been together for 4 years, living in a crackerbox apartment for over 3, and we...
My fiancee and I have been together for 4 years, living in a crackerbox apartment for over 3, and we still absolutely adore each other. We have a joint bank account, and she is absolutely, positively the love of my life, period. She and I have made love SO much that we are considering trying to find a girlfriend. NOT a friend w/ benefit, but a girlfriend we can give love to, be intimate with, and be exclusive between the three of us. No, we don't expect to have her forever, hopefully she'll find someone to make herself happy, and we'll part ways. I KNOW I won't have a problem staying true to my fiancee, I'm just wondering what impact you all think it will have on us in the long term?
This might get lengthy. Okay, my most recent ex. We have been on and off for about 2 years. And the ...
This might get lengthy. Okay, my most recent ex. We have been on and off for about 2 years. And the last time we have dated, I did use her for sex. And I ended it, this time for good. But she is now psychotic, always has been. She's blaming ALL of her problems on me but she has been cutting and popping pills since her first boyfriend problem. She's calling me emotionally abusive? Yeah I have said some mean things to her, but only once she drives me to a certain sanity point. I just lose it, I ask her to leave me alone, she doesn't, I had to change my phone number ($15), block her on MySpace. And friends. But she still continues to say things about me. I believe she's the emotionally abusive one though, she harasses me, she's always trying to put me down, and never leaves me alone even when I try to be nice about it, but after she blows of the nice, I do get mad. But now on her MySpace, she posted to the public, I was ABUSIVE, not emotionally, physically, but I have NEVER laid a hand on her. She told my friend to tell me she was 3 months pregnant, and she had an abortion because I wasn't fit to be a father. She thinks just because I treated her wrong, that I treat everyone that way, when in reality, everyone else thinks and sees me as the sweetest person alive. I would, and in my entire life, have never treated anyone else the way I treat her, every other girl I've had a relationship with, I still communicate and am friends with. And that is because nobody besides her is crazy and psychotic and bent on destroying my life. She posts lies about me to everybody in bulletins through MySpace. I get messages about them all of the time. It destroys me. It makes me mad. It makes me feel like absolute crap because I know it's not true, and I don't want everybody to think I'm a terrible person, I fear her scaring of the new girl I'm talking to. Has anybody else had this kind of problem? How has it ended for you, good/bad? Has your ex ever given up and moved on? I don't want to deal with this for the rest of my life.
Ok so there was an old high school friend of mine who I havent seen for few years and I actually did...
Ok so there was an old high school friend of mine who I havent seen for few years and I actually did not like her during my high school days though everybody knew she was hot. Anyways one day I went to my old town where I used to live and I met this girl. I was actually pritty optimistic and I did not have any intensions on hitting her until somehow she just gave me the siqns of intrests. Anyways we talked alot of our high school days and I even admitted that I did not like her when we were bit younger but now I have a totally different opinion of her. One led to another we were kissing,dancing and then we were in bed. Both were drunk but not that drunk so we knew what was going on. I kissed her alot and touched here body until she turned to me with confidence and told me that she does not want to have sex with me because she liked me so much. She then told me to hugh her and then we just slept.
The next morning went very easy. We drank coffee talked and laughed and ate some chinese and then she left for work.
Dont get me wrong I was very happy! Knowing that she is not cheap was a pleasent suprise and we even met 3 times in one week after that night, before I had to go back to my current town which is 1hour flight from her town.
But im still pritty confused. Do girls really back up sex if they think that this man could be the rightfor her OR was I just that bad or was something else? We met 3 times though and those 3 dates were totally kissing and hugging and lots of fun.
Im not that in to SERIOUS relationships so I cant figure out when a girl wants to be serious. I more of a player my self. Sometimes I noticed some player elements on her but sometimes I noticed that she is really looking for a man.
I contacted her few weeks ago and she told me that she is eager to see me again. Now since there is still one month. Should I send her some text messages or dirty messages since I know she likes dirty and I hope she really liked me because I could give it a try if it comes to a relationship.
Hey ppl. I've been a nice guy my whole life until I had my first "potential" girlfriend. One of my f...
Hey ppl. I've been a nice guy my whole life until I had my first "potential" girlfriend. One of my female friends told me to be really nice to her and to take her out on dates. And I tried being really nice to her and gave her compliments and shit until day she told me I was quote: Not dirty enough. So then one day I went off on her and we never talked since. But that "You're just not dirty enough" thing got to me. I've been more of an asshole lately and I've gotta say, it's pretty fun. But I don't know if it's worth it. Which brings me to my question: When it comes to love, is it better being a bad boy or a nice guy?
I know this girl,shes out of a relation n on rebound trip.I had a small make out session with her 2n...
I know this girl,shes out of a relation n on rebound trip.I had a small make out session with her 2nd day of breakup,now shes doing some other guy and hiding it from me heard from friends.Anyways i want to get laid with her how to turn things round my way when shes not giving me time?
Hi, my name is Jack.
I am in high school and have a small, tight cliche. I am friends with a ...
Hi, my name is Jack.
I am in high school and have a small, tight cliche. I am friends with a lot of women, but none of them show intersts in me, im a brother to them. They are at the same time, protective of me when im around or talking to other women. I was just wondering how i might go about meeting and talking to girls outside of my comfort zone. I am also naturally shy so thats another barrier i have to break :/
So, I've been in a relationship for nine months now. My girlfriend told me prior, that she was going...
So, I've been in a relationship for nine months now. My girlfriend told me prior, that she was going to apply for a student exchange program and leave for a school quarter. I find out recently she is going to be staying in the far east cost, while I remain in the California. Is there really a chance that this will work???
Hi all, I am having some problems. I have a girlfriend that I really like and we've had sex a...
Hi all, I am having some problems. I have a girlfriend that I really like and we've had sex a couple of times before. But now she's been saying that she doesn't want to have sex..I think for religious reasons. I want to respect that but honestly I have needs but I don't want to make it seem like I am all about sex. Any advice on what I should do? Thanks
Me and my Girlfriend have been going out a total of 6 months. First time I dated her was for 3 month...
Me and my Girlfriend have been going out a total of 6 months. First time I dated her was for 3 months. She broke up with me because she thinks that we would be better off as friends. Then 3 months later we started dating again. Right now its been 3 months since I have been dating her. But I sometimes think she might break up with me again. Is it bad that I have those thoughts? And can you give me advice how I can stop thinking about that?
I have been in love with a girl since we were 16 years old. We dated in high school for 3 years and...
I have been in love with a girl since we were 16 years old. We dated in high school for 3 years and lost our virginity to each other. When we both left for college we kind of went our seperate ways because neither of us wanted a long distance relationship. I never stopped loving her and still thought about her for the 5 years we were appart. We both dated new people and were in relationships during this time but now that we've both graduated, we're both back home, single, and have started hanging out again as friends. The problem is im having a difficult time being friends with this girl because im still in love with her, and every time we hang out or even talk on the phone i find myself wanting her again, and i can't tell how she feels. Sometimes she'll give those subtle kiss me vibes, and other times nothing. I just dont know what to do because i feel like if i tell her how i feel i might scare her off and i certainly dont want that (we're really good friends), but at the same time my feelings are just surging waiting to burst. I love this girl with everything that i am, and i want to be with her more than anything. Any advice guys?
I'm not so good with women not because I'm nervous to talk to them. No. I could make a good conversa...
I'm not so good with women not because I'm nervous to talk to them. No. I could make a good conversation with them, not scared to comment them on how pretty they are and things like that, but I don't no how to take it to the next level. Like if I get her phone number I'm scared that i will choke or run out of something to say. I don't want them to think that I just want to be friends. I've been single for a long time now. I want to have a girl who I can be more then friends with.
Hello there. I'm from Argentina and I happened to come across this fantastic website while I was loo...
Hello there. I'm from Argentina and I happened to come across this fantastic website while I was looking for some advice regarding bed issues.
Not to sound arrogant or anything (if it could be considered as such) I can last for as long as I want. Once my woman gets me hard it's very difficult for my member to go down (unless we stop all activities).
Now, this could be a great thing for many, but truthfully after several experiences my self-interest is starting to show. I'd give anything for being able to cum in 2-5 minutes like I saw a person say in a post below...
Is this too rare? Any advice? Any information you need in order to advice me?
I have been with my new girl friend for a little more than a week and we're both enjoying our time t...
I have been with my new girl friend for a little more than a week and we're both enjoying our time together very much. It seems like we know so much about each other even though we only met a few weeks ago. She doesn't want to get screwed over or used like she has before by not sleeping with me until later on, which is perfectly fine by me. My only concern is that she has more experience in bed than I do and I don't know if I'll be able to satisfy her
well, there is this girl that i love, and i professed my feelings to her, well at first she told me ...
well, there is this girl that i love, and i professed my feelings to her, well at first she told me that she only wants me to be her friend and but still i pursued my feelings to her thinking that maybe i have this little chance in her heart.. then after a month or two, she told me that i should wait for 6 years for her to answer if she love me or not, i ask her why.. then she told me that she is afraid of her mother cause she thinks that her mother don't want us to be girlfriend and boyfriend yet.. well, i'm a little confused is she doing this to test me? or to drive me away? or is she telling the truth? i don't know what to do.. please, can someone help me?
I have been married for 20 years, and recently my wife opened a Facebook account. At first, I thoug...
I have been married for 20 years, and recently my wife opened a Facebook account. At first, I though this new activity was inoffensive and I did not let it bother me. I always have had complete trust on her. However, later I found out that for a short period of time she was had established ongoing conversations with a man she once knew and did not tell me. My trust on her was shattered and I have become tremendously jealous. My wife first thought it was cute, but is now growing impatient with my jealousy bouts. She has since stopped all communications with this individual but continues using Facebook. What can I do to lower my anxiety level and reestablish my trust on her?
is it nasty for a women to have sex during her period?...my girlfriend wants to have sex but she is ...
is it nasty for a women to have sex during her period?...my girlfriend wants to have sex but she is on her period. Im wondering how that will be different..
I'm married 15 yrs, prior to that I had some bi experiences. In all these yrs, I want to try it aga...
I'm married 15 yrs, prior to that I had some bi experiences. In all these yrs, I want to try it again. No commitment, just a fling. When I was young and stupid, I didnt worry about diseases, and did some things in the adult bookstores, and luckily have never contracted anything. I don't want to look local in case something would go sour, then this person "outs" me. Any advice?
Hey I'm 17 and have never had sex. I'm going to germany soon and you know I gotta get laid there lol...
Hey I'm 17 and have never had sex. I'm going to germany soon and you know I gotta get laid there lol. So I was wondering with my penis being only 4 inches is it still possible to please the girl i have sex with? Should I be embarrassed??
I've never had a girlfriend and this is a big problem for me. Everytime i want to ask a girl out i f...
I've never had a girlfriend and this is a big problem for me. Everytime i want to ask a girl out i freeze up. I need some help on what u guys think i should do
I cant handle a relationship well, its like this.. i only like the courting stage because that is th...
I cant handle a relationship well, its like this.. i only like the courting stage because that is the challenging part but when she becomes my girlfriend, all things fall apart because i no longer know what to do.. by the way my longest active relationship was just 1 month hehe pathetic.. i hate that about me
Hey Everybody
I have an Important question and I need some advice. So, my Girlfriend and I hav...
Hey Everybody
I have an Important question and I need some advice. So, my Girlfriend and I have been dating 4 some-time now.everything is good except one thing. SEX!! I have the problem of cumming too fast I usually last 2-5 minutes. She said she was okay with it, BUt I don't believe her. My question is how do I last longer without paying
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years now and once a month, she goes...
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years now and once a month, she goes berzerk (hormones). Apparently this has always been the case, and I have tried everything from reasoning to avoiding her whenever an issue we need to discuss comes up. Should I just avoid her a couple days a month, because understanding and compassion just don't work with crazy women...
I have a co-worker who is on the phone 8 hours a day with her husband arguing about EVERYTHING. Fro...
I have a co-worker who is on the phone 8 hours a day with her husband arguing about EVERYTHING. From which furniture to pick out, to why her doctor knows less than he does, to why the holiday decorations he picked out are wrong. Is there anything I can do. She is a co-worker and generally a nice person, but how do I politely say STOP!!! Everything is not a crisis!!!
Thanks.
Question:
I am married. I have only ever had sex with my wife. I met her in my early twenty?s.
My wife obviously had boyfriends/hookups etc before me and for some reason since the beginning of our relationship I?ve always had a really hard time dealing with that fact.
I get really anxious and insecure when I think about it.
I guess for reasons like I feel I may not be as good as them in bed (my wife claims that I am the best she?s had ? but at the same time she knows how insecure I am so, even though sex is good for us, I have a hard time believing it)
Also I get upset because I wish I could have been her only one. I suppose that?s the jealousy part.
These issues may seem pretty pathetic to some readers out there but, really, the anxiety is ruining our marriage.
What do you want other people to know about him or her?
She is wonderful, and I don't plan on letting go of her anytime soon.
Describe how your relationship ended?
still going...
What would you describe their most positive strength (Humour, Responsibility, Loyalty, Caregiver, Independence, etc.) ?
passion.
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